So I bet you’re wondering what I’m talking about right??

In Genesis 3:12-13 “ Then the man said, “The women whom you gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.” 

And the Lord God said the to the women, “ What is this you have done?” 

The women said, “ The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

So think of it like this….

Snake = Sin (in your life)

God = The voice in your head telling you not to eat of the tree (not to commit the sin)

 In verses 12 & 13 Adam and Eve begin playing the blame game. Instead of Adam taking full responsibility and owning up to his mistake, he begins to blame Eve and then instead of Eve taking responsibility for her mistake she begins to blame the snake for giving her the fruit. Thing is God told both Adam and Eve not to eat from the tree of good and evil. So they were both responsible for the decisions they both made. When we sin we try to hide because we know we were in the wrong or we were doing something we weren’t supposed to be doing.

Just like when a child breaks something, their immediate reaction is to blame their sibling instead of taking responsibility for their mistake. The child knew you told them to stop running around the house, so therefore they felt the need to hide behind their mistake knowing they were in the wrong.

You’re wondering how does this apply to my life? 

When we often commit sin in our lives, we choose to blame things or people for our mistakes. Instead of taking full responsibility for them. Before we get ready to sin, I feel as if God always gives us a way out. We sometimes listen to that little voice and sometimes we choose to the very sin we are told not to do. Sometimes at that very moment the pleasure that sin gives you seems worth it. But the truth is, that feeling that sin gives you, only last for moment and soon after you begin to have deep regrets about it. 

So is sin truly worth it??

The answer is NO!! The sin in our lives should never have a louder voice than God. The only way to hear God’s voice and have it become louder over your sin, all comes down to which spirit your feeding the most. If you’re wanting to hear God’s voice, you are going to need to make some changes in your life. Starting with spending more time in the word and with God, so you’re feeding the holy spirit.

As we start the week, ask yourself this question each day.  Is sin really worth it? The only way you will continue to learn and grow in Christ is to find out those problem areas in your life and to begin to work on them. You are not alone, we are all faced with sin but learning to listen to God’s voice above all else really makes the difference in our lives.

Self Reflection :

What problem areas do I have in my life?

What can I do to begin to work on those problem areas?

Photo Credit: Rob Strok

Have you ever wondered what makes a person unique or what makes a person tick?

Isn’t crazy how 7.3 billion people on this earth all have different fingerprints, smiles and dreams. Matthew 10:30-31 “ And the hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.” God has created each and everyone of us to be unique and created us with a special purpose.

So why do we so often hide who we really are, instead of being what God has called us to be?

God has created so many unique gifts and talents within us. We should each be able to fulfill our special purpose on earth for Him. Like Jeremiah 1:5 says “ I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”

It’s funny because the very failures we feel are holding us back, are what God is using to fulfill his purpose in us. When are we going to stop being afraid, and start sharing those talents like He intended for us.

All the failures, successes, dreams, likes and dislikes and your past experiences, make up who you are  today. Stop looking at failures as a disadvantage, look at as more of advantage. Just like how you should view the glass as half full instead of half empty. God knew exactly what He was doing when created you. Because God has called you out from the other’s to fulfill His purpose.

Which leads me ask this question…

How are you going to begin to fulfill his purpose for your life this year?

Photo Credit: Rob Strok

I hope everybody's 2016 is going great so far. We all know the saying, new year, new me right? It seems as if each year we say the same thing  but then we go back to our old habits, that we struggled with last year. Maybe there’s a reason for it…..

Have you ever truly thought about why sometimes we can’t keep those New Years resolutions for very long? The answer is simple, as I have discovered. It’s not just about saying it, but it’s about holding yourself accountable to those goals each and everyday. 

In 2 Corinthians 5:17 “ This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!”

This means forget your past sins, this a new year to become whole and right with Christ. Stop holding on to whatever happened last year, 2016 is a clean slate for you to start over.  Meaning leave all the problems, sin, bad attitudes and the old thought process in 2015. 2016’s slate is clean and is a brand new start for you.

So here are somethings I’m using to start my new year’s off right ..

1. Do a fast

It doesn’t mean you have to deprive yourself of food, you could fast from whatever takes up your time. Then give that extra time to God and watch your relationship with Him grow!

2. Write what you’re fasting from and what you hope to achieve by doing this and stick it on a board so you can see it everyday!

3. Make a vision board of all the things you want to accomplish this year or even what you’re working on this year to move closer to that accomplishment.

Remember make 2016 your year!! I hope you found this helpful in some way. Tell me what your goals are for 2016!

Love,

This Christian Girl

Photo Credit: Rob Strok

As we go into this new year one thing that has been weighing heavy on my heart is being content. Becoming content is the hardest lesson I’m learning right now. I’ve been feeling stressed and be honest sort of frustrated. 

For some odd reason I thought at the age of 21 I would have life all figured out. But as I started learning more about life and how it’s more of an uphill battle and not just a straight shot to the finish line, things have been becoming clearer to me.

 So I began looking at areas of my life, where I could start making changes? Instead of living in the moment and being content with where I was in life, I just complained. Looking back at that area of my life I found myself getting frustrated realizing just how much time I wasted.

So what exactly does contentment mean? Contentment means to be in state of peaceful happiness.

So yes that means being content with where you are in life, even though it’s not what you planned or even dreamed of. Just remember you are exactly where God wants you to be, I can’t stress that enough. There are lessons and trials that God wants you to go through first. I never quite understood that part of life until now.

Philippians 4:11- “ I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.”

It’s not that God wants you to stay where you’re at, he wants for us to be grateful and to be content with where we are on our journey. Since God has shown this to me I have been working on this daily. 

Trust me it’s not easy, but I find myself smiling more throughout the day. The enemy will try to attack you at this time. Just remember to talk to God, ask him to keep your eyes focused on him and to let his light shine through you.

Here are a few questions to start helping you look at your life, and the areas you could change.

What areas in your life could you start making changes to become content with life?

What do you need to do to start making those changes?

Photo Credit: Rob Strok

New Years Eve Looks (Third Look) by thechristiangirlblog featuring black jewelry

The third New Years look is edgy with a touch of glam. The blazer has cut outs in the shoulders, which I thought would be fun to play it up with the ripped black jeans for that edgier feel. But of course because it’s New Years which means I had to add a gold sequin tank which I then paired with black and gold jewelry and strappy heels to help bring this New Years look together. This look can be worn to a more low key event like bowling, dinner, movie or small get together. 

Any of these looks would look great wherever you ladies decide to wear them

Hope you girls found this helpful and tag me in your outfit pics from New Years!!

Be safe and Have A Happy New Year!!

Love, 

The Christian Girl

New Years Eve Looks (Second Look) by thechristiangirlblog featuring black sandals

This second look is is your traditional New Years Eve dress. I decided to go all black with this outfit by adding a black statement ring, a black and silver mesh clutch and black opened toed heels. I love the detailing on the dress with all the different designs and the neckline. You could wear this dress with that special someone at a New Years Eve party!

New Years Eve Looks (First Look) by thechristiangirlblog featuring christmas jewelry

Hey Ladies!

So we are only a couple of days away from New Years Eve!! Exciting I know, if you haven’t gone shopping yet, don’t worry I have three different looks to make your shopping experience a little easier.

The first look is definitely my favorite look out of this collection. This look has that glam vibe to it with rose gold and black accessories. I wanted this look to be playful and flirty so I added a satin plunge playsuit. If you’re somewhere where it’s chilly, you could a pair a faux fur coat with it, to glam it up even more. This look would be fun to wear on New Years Eve with the girlfriends!